Anonymous asked: Sometimes it hurts to have sex with my boyfriend because he's really thick. We go slow and use lube but it's still a little painful. Is there any way to solve this problem?
Some suggestions that I would like to give are:
- Go even slower, when penetrating for the first time, allow only the glans (the head) in and wait for a few minutes for your orifice to relax and compensate, in the mean time kiss, touch, increase intimacy. Then go in inch by inch until he’s fully in. Remember slow and steady wins the race!
- Have more sex. This may sound counter-intuitive, but this will make the walls of your orifice more used to his penis. Also, his penis will be more malleable with more sex. This makes it easier for HIS penis to conform to your orifice! Plus, you get more sex. :P
- Possibly trying out new lubes, a lot of lubes tend to dry out. In that case I suggest silicone lubes.
- Possibly use a condom and a lot of lube, the condom reduces friction, causing less discomfort.
I hope these help. Happy Fucking!
Anonymous asked: Hey! You were on hiatus for a while. Hahaha.
Are there any condoms bigger than magnum? The magnum is a bit tight for my boyfriend so he would rather choose to have sex condomless, I'd prefer that he put one on.
Yea, sorry for the hiatus. Life got in the way….. the quarter system sucks!
As for the condom situation. I personally do not know any condoms that are bigger than Magnums. There are custom made condoms that range in thickness and length. I do not know where, but a bit of online searching should do the trick.
Also, I believe that female condoms tend to be wider in diameter than the original condom, that could be a possibility.
Lastly, the condom is for your safety, If your partner chooses to not want to put one on, he could potentially be endangering you. Alas, happy fucking!
Anonymous asked: im a guy and I'm friends with this girl who is really attractive and whenever we are close I start getting a massive boner which looks really obvious. Are there any ways of hiding it?
There are a few things that you can do to hide your boner:
- Wear briefs and place your flaccid penis along the direction of your brief from the left or the right.
- masturbate before seeing her
- (though i dont suggest this, i’ve done it) tape your penis back (i’m a drag queen)
- Bring a boner blocker! A textbook, pillow, or something to hide it.
That’s all i got, sorry.
Anonymous asked: Are there any other techniques to masturbate other than going in and out in and out? (female)
This should help!
Anonymous asked: How can I grow bigger breasts????
There are a few things that you can do:
- Eat more, breasts are made of fat, so an increase in fat would be an increase in breast size.
- Working out your pecs (the alternative to eating more), this will first make your breasts smaller, but then increase due to working out your muscles.
Anonymous asked: What is the average thickness and length of a penis
This should help!
Anonymous asked: Hello (: I love your blog (:
I was tested positive with genital herpes. My boyfriend is aware of this but now he doesn't want to have sex with me. How can I convince him?
I think this is a hard situation to be in. I would suggest that you trying to swoon him while you are not having an outbreak. Men are typically visual people. Also, to add to it, already have a female condom on, or be as prepped for sex as much as possible. Relax him with light touches or massages and perform oral sex. I hope these suggestions help, I hope that you get what you want!
Anonymous asked: I've never had sex before but can you be a sex addict even though you've never had sex? I probably think of sex every time I see a guy. Is there something wrong with me?!?
There is nothing wrong with thinking about sex, or potentially having a high sex drive. Though, I can relate, I used to have a really high sex thought mentality. So you’re not alone! Just wait til you feel you’re ready, then fuck til the world ends! :)
Anonymous asked: Male and 23.
I was wondering if you can answer this for me.
I know I'm straight, I love having sex with women a lot, but lately I've been watching gay porn. I stumbled by accident on it and I liked it. For some reason I get real turned on. I never thought it would be so hot seeing two men having sex and it kind of excites me to think I may want to try it. Could this mean I'm probably gay when I never had gay thoughts or is it that I am wanting to experiment more with my sexuality. In my opinion I feel it's more of just wanting to experiment with my sexuality, because ultimately I don't like men or find men attractive in the homosexual way.
In my opinion, I believe that you are simply curious. If you would like to experiment in your sex life there are some alternative situations you can try. I do not think you are gay, but having an experience can’t be all that bad. The few that I can think of:
- Find a gay friend that is down for casual sex. That will not get emotionally attached. Things could get messy if emotions are attached.
- Hook up on the internet. Just remember to be safe.
I would say explore your body and your mind and experiment with your sexuality. Happy Fucking!
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Anonymous asked: I've never given a blowjob before, and im prepared to do it to my boyfriend. how are some ways to avoid getting STD, and other infections? (btw im female and I have braces... if that makes any difference)
First of all, I advise that you and your boyfriend both get tested. It is probably the smartest and most responsible thing to do once you become sexually active. The most effective way to stop the spread of STDs/STIs during sexual intercourse is to use a condom. If your boyfriend has an STD/STI, the sperm that touches an open wound in your mouth may can transfer that disease/infection. This might be a big factor as you have braces because I remember when I had braces the metal would scratch against the inside of my lips, especially if I covered my teeth with my lips for any reason. So I highly advise you use a condom if you decide to give a bj.
If you are both clean and you decide to give one without a condom, I advise that after the act, you swish your mouth with mouthwash, DO NOT BRUSH YOUR TEETH. Brushing may open the gum line and increase the spread and chances of infection.
Anonymous asked: Today I was masturbating in the shower (girl!) and it was feeling good, but then I saw a noticeable amount of blood coming out of me :l I've been having sex with my boyfriend, and only once was there a TINY bit of blood afterwards. No where near this much. Why is this? /: has my boyfriend just not managed to break my hymen yet? I was using a rounded toothbrush holder thing, I'm prettty sure my boy is bigger than that- *confused*
It’s actually possible for your hymen to be intact even after you’ve had intercourse. There have been cases where women have given birth with a complete hymen. So, you masterbating might have led you to break your own hymen, which is natural (it can break through stretching, exercise, or even inserting a tampon). The part that confuses me a little is “noticeable amount of blood.” I’m not sure what that means really… If it’s menstrual-heavy then you’re on your period, however, if it’s a lot that can pool in the palm of your hand and you aren’t on your period, either you may have broken your hymen or scratched something inside your vagina. If there is still blood and you’re not on your period, I highly advise you talk to your doctor right away.
Anonymous asked: I'm a virgin & I'm a girl who hasn't had a boyfriend yet. I know I'm not ugly because guys like me but I'm very picky. I act very innocent but in reality I masturbate sooo much. I want fuck a man already. I watch porn but lesbian porn. I don't have feelings for girls but at night i sometimes make up a hot girl in my mind & play with them ;) it's extremely hot, I get so wetttt. I know I'm not a lesbian cause I don't have a crush on a girl... Is that weird?!! & do you know other ways to pleasure my clit ?
DEFINITELY normal! In fact, your situation kinda sounds like mine back when I was a teenager, hahah! I would watch both straight and lesbian porn (I actually don’t find porn all too appealing anymore as I’m sexually active and the boy is all I need to fantasize about ;D) Anyway, I don’t think it’s weird at all and I feel that you are sexually comfortable with yourself and who you are but you just want to get the deed over with. I think you’re just sexually starved and so you’re completely down with lesbian porn. Also, it may be that you visually find sex appealing, you may be more dominant than submissive, or just completely horny :P TL;DR: completely normal :)
And tips on other forms of stimulation can be found HERE.
